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a man
with a big temper
who loses it at small things
will never be a big man.
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Deviousness `anmari has been spreading her infectious positivity throughout our community for over 6 years. Throughout this time Ana has been at the core of all things devious, passionately developing an eclectic gallery, helping organise devmeets, participating in chat events and also recently completed dedicating her time as a Community Volunteer. We are absolutely delighted to bestow the Deviousness Award for May 2013 to `anmari, congratulations! Read More
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I try not to be angry and most of the time I'm not but I'll admit that I tend to hold onto things far too long, like if someone wrongs me I'm a little quick to label them as my enemy and I tend to brood on what they said and/or did to me slightly longer then I should
But like I said, you're right, but in a different sense. Yes, anger is a natural emotion and it can be a healthy release, if done right (I.E. meditation, calmly voicing your displeasure, breathing exercises, etc.), but on the opposite side of the coin it can not only kill people you love emotionally or literally, but yourself as well. Unfortunately, not a lot of people like to heed my advice and instead think that acting like a savage ape or Godzilla will help, but the repercussions can and will come back to bite them on the butt.
On the matter of what things make people blow their stack, losing it over trivial things is ridiculous. I understand if someone had a rough day and there's only so much BS they can handle before something must be done, but I believe you and I are referring to people with hair-trigger tempers, where the person has a rage repository always filled up and are just waiting for someone to just so much as glance in their general direction. Life's too short to live a life of rage. Save it for the bigger things; the things that matter.
As I've said, there's healthy ways to extinguish anger. If it's a big problem, use the anger as a motivation to get the problem rectified, especially if it can be fixed. Exercise helps as well, like maybe a punching bag or running (I personally enjoy the latter). Now if only more people could see this, maybe, just maybe, life would be a little bit better and a little more fair.
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But like I said, anger is a perfectly normal feeling, it's just how you use it. ^_^